” How Do You Feel About The Fact That We All Gonna Die”

”Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. ”Mahatma Gandhi
This is one of the most interesting questions that we tend not to think about very much. Yet our answer profoundly informs how we live. we have a culture of silence around dying and death. It’s a great taboo that fills most of us with anxiety about life’s end without any way to reduce that anxiety. We all know we are going to die, yet we don’t talk about it. The entire subject has become a mysterious and ominous kind of black hole in our consciousness, and we learn not to go there.

I think it would be really healthy for us to break through this taboo and normalize our conversation about death. It would free us to examine our beliefs, thoughts, and feelings about death, both individually and collectively. Perhaps it would change how we feel about war and violence. By embracing the reality of death, we might be able to perceive a greater value and a deeper meaning of life.

”We’re born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we’re not alone.”

Orson Welles

When I raise this question with people, the most common answer begins with the phrase “I was raised… and I believe….” Many people have never challenged the belief system they were taught as children. Others question and affirm it, while still others find it a starting point from which their beliefs evolve as they explore the issue over the course of their lives. I fall into this latter category.

When I began to explore the reality of death more deeply, I found that I was less afraid of death itself than I was of dying. I was anxious about not knowing when and how I would die. It terrified me when I thought of it. It was as though we all walk around with a huge question mark over our heads, not knowing how much time we have left. Here today, maybe gone tomorrow. At first, I thought that God had a mean streak or a bad day when inventing death. I thought it was wrong and that we should live forever. But when I thought about that, I wondered what forever would be like — an endless story, a giant run-on sentence with no ending punctuation. Would there be no aging of the body or maturing of our minds in an endless now? Would we be stuck in a perpetual state of changeless being? The more I thought about the mixed blessings of being an infant, a child, a teen, a 20-year-old, a 40-year-old, and a person in my 60s, the more I valued the exquisite design of this progression of maturation. I wouldn’t want to live endlessly in one frozen form without the punctuation of time passing. The more I thought this way, the more normal and appropriate death seemed.

When I delved further into the question of what happens when we die, I looked first at what I had been taught as a child. Just as many children learn to be good to get great presents from Santa, I was taught to be good in the way I lived my life so that I could earn eternal life with God. I had no idea what that meant other than that I shouldn’t be “bad.” It was a great inducement for conformity to the rules. As I matured, my ideas about life, death, God and eternity evolved. I found myself to be eclectic in gathering bits and pieces of wisdom from around the world that resonated with the truth that existed inside of me. Where did that truth come from? I do not know. I just know that I have always recognized what is true for me by a process of reflection and inner resonance.

When I think about what happens to us when we die, I realize that I cannot address the matter without simultaneously looking at the purpose and meaning of life. Life and death seem to be woven together in an endless process of one birthing the other.

Based on my current understanding of things, I believe that we are all souls having human experiences for the purpose of coming to know our divine nature in human form — our oneness through and with God. As such, I believe that what we commonly refer to as death is simply the death of this body and personality, the dropping of a human form by our real self — the soul. As far as I can tell, we really do see a bright light and loved ones on the other side of this death as we journey forward in our process of awakening. I believe that we do re-embody again and again as we strengthen our awareness of our own divinity. So, while I am saddened by the loss of connection to loved ones that occurs at death, I am comforted by my belief that this is one in a series of lives.

I know that many people do not share my particular beliefs. That is fine with me. Personally, I find it quite fascinating that “the truth” resonates differently in each of us. What do you believe happens when we die?

  • We simply stop being, going out like a fire.
  • Our physical body dies, and that is all we are.
  • We are spiritual beings having human experiences, and at death, our body dies, but our spirit or soul lives on.
  • We only live this one life.
  • Our souls reincarnate, taking on different physical identities to work off karmic imbalances accrued from previous lives.
  • We go to heaven, hell or purgatory.
  • It doesn’t matter.
  • Other.

Have you explored your truth? What do you think, and how do you feel about the fact that we all die? That you will die? That everyone you know will die? Are you at peace with this reality? If not, what is your experience, and why do you think that is so? If you are at peace, what has enabled you to view death that way? What do you think happens when we die? How do your beliefs about death inform how you live your life?


54 thoughts on “” How Do You Feel About The Fact That We All Gonna Die”

  1. I was raised in a different belief system which I questioned extensively as it did not make sense. I have explored many faiths and come to something similar to yours. I’m not afraid of death but also don’t really want to experience a long drawn-out painful death or worse still, a longer extension of useless life. I’m enjoying this life as much as I can but quite looking forward to the next phase.

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  2. I cannot know whether my own ageing process has anything to do with it, but I am under the impression that people these days are interested in existential questions, issue of the Self, life and death, the meaning of life, more than they used to only decades ago. If this is the case, I see in it a proof that human consciousness is evolving in big steps and we are witnessing an evolutionary process that is currently accelerated.


  3. Death is ultimate reality. We must accept it as it is. Fearing will not change anything. Death actually gives meaning to life. The idea that we have finite time makes us utilize life more meaningfully. It makes life more precious. I do not believe in reincarnation as it does not make sense.

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    1. I think life we got is a cycle …death is the end of the cycle…during this cycle whatever deeds you have done is counted as karma …accounting to karma you deserve a life form 🙂 but at last Buddha sag what you think ….you become 🙂 energy # vibes

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      1. What we think is not important. We can think anything. What is truth is important. I care about truth.:) . Who is counting karma? What is the definition of good and bad? Who make it and when? When I will not remember my past life, why I care about my next life which I will not remember? Karma is wrong theory. It can not explain anything. It only gives circular arguments. I love to understand your views.

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  4. As someone who’s not religious, I’m not keen on the idea of people believing they may or may not go to a magical place in the sky. But who cares? Believe what you want, human choice.

    I think the problem with death is the obsession people have with wanting to know when, why, and how. I don’t think people need to understand it, and truth be told I don’t think they should care.
    If you’re living, concentrate on exactly that. Do it so it’s worth the memories. Trying to understand death is not a task for the living. And honestly, some things are best left undiscovered. You may not like what you find…curiosity killed the cat.

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  5. I believe in the third option: That we live as spirits, on many spiritual levels. I believe our energy can and does communicate with those yet to be born, but I do not believe we bodily re-incarnate. Redundancy is not the order of the Universe, but that’s just me.

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    1. Reincarnation , the belief that the soul, upon death of the body, comes back to earth in another body form… That is spirits and spirits are energy ….I do believe In karmic cycle according to that universe decide or communicate with those yet to be born 🙂

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  6. Sir I want to ask you something, I’m meditating since 4 years but nowadays it’s just something different, like I’m scared . I do meditation from 5am to 6:00 then I take a nap but during that nap many things happens to me like, sometimes not every day sometimes I feel like some one is dragging me somewhere and I could hear some scary voices so I also scream and try to come out from that situation but it doesn’t happens … then when I wake up I ask my mom was I screaming she says no but I’m scared . So I wanted to ask that is it ok or it’s really scary???

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    1. I think …excessive thinking led to cause psychological problem…I can just suggest is that continuous your meditation and make one think clear …while meditating just be free from everything …leave things aside and try to find your answers…hope you can do it:)


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