”Perfectionism kills art. I find that if I criticise myself, it spoils the fun. You can get paralysed by analysis – it takes all the playfulness away”

. Geri Halliwell

Perfectionism, in psychology, is a personality trait characterized by a person’s striving for flawlessness and setting high performance standards, accompanied by critical self-evaluations and concerns regarding others’ evaluations. It is best conceptualized as a multidimensional characteristic, as psychologists agree that there are many positive and negative aspects.In its maladaptive form, perfectionism drives people to attempt to achieve an unattainable ideal, while their adaptive perfectionism can sometimes motivate them to reach their goals. In the end, they derive pleasure from doing so. When perfectionists do not reach their goals, they often fall into depression.


What is perfectionism?
Perfectionism is a multidimensional personality style that is associated with a large number of psychological, interpersonal, and achievement-related difficulties.
It is not a disorder but a vulnerability factor that produces problems for adults, adolescents, and children.
Often people confuse perfectionism with achievement striving or conscientiousness.
Perfectionism is distinct from these attitudes. It is a maladaptive pattern of behaviors that can result in a large number of problems. Achievement striving and conscientiousness involve appropriate and tangible expectations (often very difficult but attainable goals) and produce a sense of satisfaction and rewards. Perfectionism, on the other hand, involves inappropriate levels of expectations and intangible goals (i.e.
perfection) and a constant lack of satisfaction, irrespective of performance.
Perfectionism is a chronic source of stress, often leaving the individual feeling that he/she is a failure. Perfectionistic individuals require themselves to be perfect. This constant expectation is a source of stress and contributes to maladaptive ways of coping.

Perfectionism is multidimensional. That is, there are several different types of perfectionistic behaviour that involve motivation to actually be perfect. For example, self-oriented perfectionism is the requirement for the self to be perfect. It is what we usually think of when we use the term perfectionism. Other-oriented perfectionism is the requirement that others (e.g., spouse, children, subordinates, and
other people in general) should be perfect. Finally, socially prescribed perfectionism is the perception that others (e.g., one’s parents, boss, and
people in general) require oneself to be perfect. In addition to these three kinds of perfectionism that focus on a need to be perfect there is also a kind of
perfectionism that involves needing to appear to others as if one is perfect.
Each of these kinds of perfectionism is associated with different kinds of problems. For example, it has been shown that self-oriented perfectionism is associated with clinical depression, especially in the presence of achievement-related (e.g., job or school related shortfalls) stressors. It has been shown that when self-oriented perfectionists experience these kinds of stressful events they experience more severe and more chronic depression symptoms.
Self-oriented perfectionism has been associated with anorexia nervosa, prolonged elevations in cardiovascular responses, and interpersonal problems reflecting over-responsibility.


Other-oriented perfectionism has been associated with relationship problems, such as poor marital satisfaction, sexual dissatisfaction, and anger toward others.
Socially prescribed perfectionism has been associated with a variety of symptoms including anxiety, depression, eating disorder symptoms, and hostility.
Most importantly this dimension of perfectionism has been found to predict not only suicide thoughts and behaviours in adults and adolescents, but also serious suicide attempts. Further more, there are a variety of achievement-related problems that arise from this kind of perfectionism such as procrastination and self-handicapping (i.e., where individuals spend time finding excuses for poor performance rather than preparing for a performance).

Finally, perfectionistic self-presentation involves a variety of difficulties such as precluding one from seeking appropriate help for difficulties and not benefiting fully from treatment due to great difficulties in self-disclosing personal information.


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14 thoughts on “”Perfectionism””

  1. I used to, and still do have, OCD. I knew I had to let it go, however… otherwise it would lead me into a storm of anxiousness. I’m trying to focus on the the things that matter without ‘perfecting’ them overly. Thank you for the post, it really helped.

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  2. This was a great exploration into the multifaceted dynamics of ego psychology. As you said, perfectionism is multidimensional and can become problematic if left unchecked. However the dynamics that underlie it as a drive are firmly rooted in our capacity to realize Self and our capacity to advance confidently in the direction of our dreams. Thank you, it was a great read.

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